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Bevor ich es vergesse

Farewell to a Father
Adapted from the novel by Anne Pauly

 Schauspielhaus
 World premiere
 Premiere: 8.10.2025
 2 hours 5 minutes
 Thu-Sat: 15-45 €, Sun-Wed: 10-40 €, under 30 years each seat category: 10 €
 Schauspielhaus
 World premiere
 Premiere: 8.10.2025
 2 hours 5 minutes
 Thu-Sat: 15-45 €, Sun-Wed: 10-40 €, under 30 years each seat category: 10 €

The story of a reconciliation

A woman has to sort out her father’s affairs after his death – organising his funeral service and burial, clearing out his house and so on. Anyone who has ever done this knows it can lead to despair. The daughter fights against forgetting but, at the same time, is aware that she has to let go. The process of saying goodbye to her father, with all its absurd, embarrassing and painful moments and ambivalent memories, ultimately becomes a journey of reconciliation and a declaration of love to the deceased and to life itself.

Anne Pauly’s novel “Avant que j’oublie” (Before I forget) was awarded the French Audience Award for “Best Book of the Year” in France in 2020. In Germany, it was translated by Amelie Thoma and published by Luchterhand Literaturverlag under the title “Bevor ich es vergesse” in 2024.

Wiebke Puls was so inspired and touched by the novel’s individual way of dealing with a universal moment that she is now staging the text as a solo performance in the Schauspielhaus, playfully exploring the desperate – and sometimes desperately funny – circumstances of saying goodbye.

“They said you need to have a clear-out, pick out the nice stuff, decide what you want to keep and get rid of the rest. As quickly as you can.. That will definitely help you.”

– Anne Pauly

  • Direction, version & acting Wiebke Puls
  • Outer Eye Verena Regensburger
  • Audio drama production Johann Jürgen Koch, Wiebke Puls
  • Audio design Johann Jürgen Koch
  • Sound design Jonathan Hanisch
  • Music Peter Pichler
  • Props Stefan Leeb, Julia Molloy
  • Light Design Wolfgang Eibert
  • Dramaturgy Matthias Günther
  • Assistant director & prompter Claudia Kaunzner
  • Equipment Assistant Amelie Unhoch
  • Stage Manager Stefanie Rendtorff
  • Artistic Production Management Victoria Fischer
  • Stage Master Marcel Homack
  • Lighting Sebastien Lachenmaier, Louis Nickel, Daniel Prütz
  • Signal box lighting Falko Rosin
  • Sound Jonathan Hanisch, Johann Jürgen Koch, Quirin Schacherl
  • Make-Up Brigitte Frank
  • Setting up cabinet Louis Nickel, Wolfgang Staudinger
  • Carpentry Ellen Bosse, Josef Friesl, Stefan Klodt-Bussmann, Wolfgang Mechmann
  • Metalworkers Jürgen Goudenhooft, Fritz Würzhuber
  • Decorations Tim Hagemeyer, Tobias Herzog
  • Scenic Painting Evi Eschenbach, Renée Nakad
  • Performance rights AVANT QUE J’OUBLIE | Based on the Work by Anne Pauly | Copyright © Anne Pauly | All rights reserved
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Armin Smailovic

Read excerpts from Anne Pauly’s novel “Bevor ich es vergesse”, an interview with the author, a conversation with Wiebke Puls, and further reading.

Press reviews

“Exceptional acting at its finest.”

nachtkritik.de • 9.10.25

“This penetrates to the deepest core. (…) This penetrates to the deepest core.Then there are those incredible moments when you feel completely powerless, when you feel like you’re falling into Anne’s stories because you know them so well, down to the last detail.”

Süddeutsche Zeitung • 9.10.25

“It’s a pleasure to watch Wiebke Puls; she once again demonstrates her great skill here, changing her playing positions with precision (…) Her production captures the light tone of the book well, despite all its tragedy.”

Abendzeitung • 10.10.25

“The great actress Wiebke Puls is of course always a small event. (…) The evening achieves something remarkable. It fascinates … by almost casually making us realise our own finiteness, which we - understandably and quite rightly - all too readily “forget””.

Münchner Merkur

Dates & Tickets

  • Sat 22.11. 8 – 10:05 pm
  • Thu 11.12. 8 – 10:05 pm
  • Mon 22.12. 8 – 10:05 pm
  • Mon 29.12. 8 – 10:05 pm
  • Sun 11.1.26 7 – 10:05 pm
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Bevor ich es vergesse
  • Schauspielhaus
  • World premiere
  • Premiere: 8.10.2025
  • 2 hours 5 minutes
  • Thu-Sat: 15-45 €, Sun-Wed: 10-40 €, under 30 years each seat category: 10 €